Throughout my life I’ve found books, articles and even lectures that teach me the splendid that the world could be if it changed attitude. You mentalizan with words such as; You can, you’re a champion, all is well; Do they arise you as a world where everything is abundance and attraction, where positive thoughts attract positive, and I agree, but I Rev it is not impossible to think that all is well when you know that it is not? For example; as thinking that all is well when after having invested a lot of time, work and money in any business, this comes down, or when a friend lends you his car and you you you hit, or when you realize that your wife you is unfaithful. Finally, we can face in this life to an infinite number of situations that make us see the reality, and we know that it is unnatural to have an attitude 100% positive and think that everything is fine when it is not true. However, recently had the opportunity to listen to a lecture that talked about how to develop truly a new attitude. I will explain the most important ideas that rescue from this Conference on my own words, and I’m sure will serve, as they did with me. The wind can not be prevented.
But Mills proverb Dutch first Idea can build: we know that there are 2 types of attitudes in this life; the positive and the negative, and we all have a balance of both, because it is impossible to maintain an attitude 100% positive. It is here where arises the idea of being a practical OPTIMIST. A person that is realistic but you are also trying to see the positive side of the coin. He sees things in a different way and are looking for a solution. Reactions: (we will base the example of a collision between 2 cars and the reaction of the driver with different approaches) positive approach: low truck, it looks all shattered and thinks everything is fine hops and is going as if nothing had happened. (We know it’s something illogical and unnatural). Negative approach: lowers all angry, becomes aggressive, leaves no complain, pulls pests and insults. (We know that) that attitude can be counterproductive and that so we won’t fix anything).
PRACTICAL OPTIMIST approach: first thanks to nothing happened you (see the positive side), obviously cares for the truck but try to solve things in a practical and peaceful manner, and also learns of the situation. The third approach is obviously that we should adopt in all aspects of our lives, we must be practical optimistic. What is important is not what happens but how read Lair Ribeiro this is the first idea of this Conference, I had to split the article into 3 parts to not make it so long. -J.R.